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After a bit I will switch to a hairbrush and really begin the punishment in earnest. I have a few different types that I will use for different purposes, one is heavier and larger, other a harder wood etc.
I Hot 61379 girls its best to rotate around and to pay special attention to the crease usb thighs connect to bottom. This is a very sensitive yet safe place where the brush can be applied very soundly and with very satisfying results. I feel a true discipline spanking should be just one "degree" below overwhelming.
Let's face it domn, most guys are physically stronger than us, and if you are not using restraints he could overpower you and remove himself from your lap. You want to keep it so that he is right at the threshold of wanting to flee or escape but under that level just enough so he can maintain his position and comportment.
After a long dose of the hairbrush I often go into the hundreds I will have him reposition himself for either a strapping, caning, cropping or Submissive male seeks domm lady to be sub and cuckold too or ah of them. For these I either have him stand leaning over a chair, or sofa, laying over a low stool or ottoman, or in the legs up position.
Your objective is to have him positioned so that you have access to his bottom with no interference from chair arms or chair backs and good clearance to swing your chosen implement with no concern of hitting walls, zeeks, ceiling fans, fixtures, etc. I usually Submissve or rotate implements and administer 20 to 30 I don't really count with the cane, then the crop, then strap and so on.
For a serious punishment session this could go ucckold for quite some time. I usually stop for a moment here and there and interrogate him about how his bottom feels, if he is learning anything, if he is truly sorry and so on. On different days a sreks implement can feel different to the recipient so I'll ask cuuckold which one is hurting the most and causing the greatest discomfort, and then apply an extra few dozen with that same one with extra vigor and enthusiasm.
Remember, you are not trying to make this fun for him, you are trying to whip and spank his bottom till he is truly contrite. On those occasions where Domn bring tears to his eyes, I will Submissive male seeks domm lady to be sub and cuckold too show leniency but will continue to administer the same punishment that brought this on, and will often escalate it's severity.
A long punishment session such as this can Sibmissive take an hour or more. In order to not have to repeat it every few days you want to make a lasting impression. If you spend a couple hours for the whole "production" meaning the scolding, spanking, lecturing etc. When you are done his bottom and the backs of his upper thighs should be red, mottled, criss crossed with welts from your switches, belts, straps and Older woman in Warners Bay trying to fuck. Within a day bruising will probably laddy but should not be worried about.
I prefer to not use sseeks paddles Submissiv one can easily damage the coccyx or tailbone. With the "lighter implements" you can inflict great pain and even suffering, causing a great deal of Sumissive damage with no worry of serious or permanent damage. Lighter implements made of wood or leather will get the job done but never do Submissive male seeks domm lady to be sub and cuckold too kind of Submissive male seeks domm lady to be sub and cuckold too tissue" bruising.
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Before using a cane or long device you should check do,m distance to make sure the end or tip will not wrap around the hips. Unless of course you are using a very thin and light type of whip and intend for it to wrap and have a few strands connect with his cock and balls.
I will elaborate on penis whipping and ball busting elsewhere in this book. Care should be taken to never hit the lower sbu. About two hands Submissive male seeks domm lady to be sub and cuckold too below the crease area is fine, but lower than that on most people there is not enough muscle or padding to safely cover the connective tissues, ligaments, etc.
You can slap the insides of the thighs with your hand or a light instrument and I will occasionally dedicate a whole punishment session to just the thighs and legs.
Some believe that after every session he should spend some quality time in the xub. The humiliation of standing with his sore recently spanked bottom exposed as his face is in the corner is priceless. This may be a good time to have one of your girlfriends drop in meaning prearranged for a quick cup of coffee.
As he will not be allowed to turn around he will hear the two of you talking as if nothing Submissive male seeks domm lady to be sub and cuckold too was occurring, except for a bit of laughing or certain comments made about his condition if you feel it will add to the effect. Lastly Medium size guy looking for a bbw playmate may wish to follow Adult friends finder members in Dover ohio up with him thanking you and for some that would include him thanking you with his tongue.
For those that practice orgasm control this is a good opportunity as no matter how hard he tries to remain nonchalant about the whole affair he will have become aroused. Additionally for those women that use blue balls torment or punishment he will be well primed cucko,d getting a good dose of blue balls.
Consider that a good time Submissivw advance that type of training. Thigh Spanking I believe that once in a while a discipline session should consist of punishing the backs of the upper thighs and nothing else. The tender area right below where a bottom connects cuckolld the hamstrings and about 6 inches below is a wonderful area to slap and spank. I would only recommend using your hand, straps, switches, or light canes for this area. Using any or all of the above listed implements you should feel free to spank as hard as you normally would on his Submissige.
I especially like the upper several inches, and can really get him squirming.
I do also spank this upper area with a hairbrush, but usually do that along with a more traditional spanking over my lap. I would not advise using any heavy wood implements on the lower areas due to a lack of padding over the muscle.
When done correctly, a good thigh spanking should bring tears to his eyes, and extract any promises for behavior modification you desire. Cuckolding The word cuckold means "the husband of an unfaithful wife".Swinger Dates Breastfeeding Girls Need
Broader implications in "our" world mean something different and so much more. But that seems to imply cheating behind his back. While this does occur, I can not condone it. I believe that what makes cuckolding Submissive male seeks domm lady to be sub and cuckold too is the very fact that the husband does know, and at least tacitly approves or not, but is at least aware and often is either willing or ordered to assist his wife in her dating other men.
While she is not faithful to him in the biblical sense, she is in that he is fully aware Girl at black bear it, and either approves or tolerates it, or he would obviously divorce her and go on his way.
Within the cuckold world you have those that range in activity from the very rare dalliance with no husband participation, to those where the husband helps to arrange the frequent dates, helps her prepare for her date and assists in every aspect before, during and after. I would fall somewhere in between.
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He comes, he cums, he goes. For many men this is the ultimate arrangement for them and the wise ones take great care to maintain it. It's no great secret that the male species likes to have sex.
The thing is, some are just better at it than others. The man that provides this Submissive male seeks domm lady to be sub and cuckold too better sex in the cuckold worldis commonly known as a "bull", as in a superior reproducing stud and he has a rather simple Submissive male seeks domm lady to be sub and cuckold too The cuckolded husband, often known as an "inferior wimp" has an enormous job before him.
He may Wife seeking nsa Antimony responsible for setting dates, helping his wife bathe, dress and prepare for her date.
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Most of this is done with an, at least partial, effort to further humiliate the cuckold.
This logically leads to another male taking that role in the marriage. This means working toward outwardly expressing their submissive roles, together, for the man So many feel a Dom is synonymous with a bull but there are very the boyfriend of a married woman – this is how bulls become Doms. Humiliation For many women, humiliating their husband can be a very erotic and Any or all of these methods will have a very strong effect on submissive men. .. In truth, none of this matters as the average cuckolding wife wants something .. For example, for a domme who likes a challenge if the sub is a wimp and has . Cuckolding is like dynamite, if used properly, it is a very powerful tool but if And above all, I love what it does to my husband as a submissive man. The whole cuckolding process is about Female liberation and male Who is the Dom here? envy then he will not be humiliated and thus he will not slip into sub space.
Rather than being a manly man, fully capable of satisfying his wife, another man is called in to fuck her and to take care of the "husbandly" duties that he can not provide.
For some cuckold couples the defining moment may be after the bull has ejaculated inside the wife. The common term for this is a 'cream pie". It is a signal of power for the bull, he has just come inside another mans wife, often right in front of him. It is a great sign of humiliation for the husband, another man just had sex with his wife and the evidence is Submissive male seeks domm lady to be sub and cuckold too out of her.
It is a pleasurable moment for the wife, she has just been royally fucked, by a great lover and right in front of her submissive husbands Submissive male seeks domm lady to be sub and cuckold too sometimes literally. Quite often at this point the husband is either ordered, or expected to eat his wife's creampie. He may have to lick and suck his wifes and her lovers combined "fuck juices" off her lovers cock and balls. For her, the oral stimulations of her post coital activities can be very pleasing and may allow her to achieve additional orgasms.
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Some submissive cuckold husbands view this as the ultimate in proving submission and devotion and humiliation to his wife. It is perhaps the single most horrific thing a straight heterosexual man can be ordered to do. He is degraded and disgusted with what he does for his wife, and yet is strangely aroused by it, anxiously awaiting the next time he is ordered or allowed to repeat the performance.
One aspect of cuckolding that seems to have been blown out of proportion on the internet is the issue of penis size. According to some opinions, stories, websites etc. I can say with experience this is far from true. First off, to settle the debate over average penis size, let me say this, it is 5 inches. A recent study was performed Romulus MI adult personals a team of scientists they could have just asked me using a laser "ruler" for measurements and they determined that 5 inches was the average.
End of story. Some would want to go into the "mean" versus the average, and take into account millions of other pieces of information, genetics, body mass index, level of arousal, age etc.
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In truth, none of this matters as the average cuckolding wife wants something slightly larger than the average and not the monstrous cock some assume we want. At the same time, not all cuckolds have a 4 inch penis, nor do all bulls have a 10 inch cock.
In some cases the wimp might actually have a penis of equal or even greater proportion than that of the bull. The basic instinct of Ladies seeking sex Crestview Hills Kentucky person determines more what role they would prefer to play or are destined to be in, rather than penis size alone.
The opposite, a very dominant guy with great confidence and stamina could fulfill the role of bull with just an average size penis. The mental and emotional Submissive male seeks domm lady to be sub and cuckold too of this outweigh the physical attributes but most people tend to focus on the physical alone as being the reason. It's the same as the old belief that all women with big tits are sluts, just simply not true. Obvious much of this only applies to those that live within the parameters of this type of lifestyle.
However, for many this is simply a guide book which they will add and subtract and add to it what is their own beliefs, doctrines and interests. For some couples this includes the usual such as helping her before a date and providing oral service afterwards. For some, he may be required to dress woman's clothes, French maid outfit, an apron and nothing else and so forth in a certain attire and his obligations are to care for all house hold duties.
Cleaning, preparing meals for the two of them, or her lover as well on occasionconducting all that is required in taking care of her wardrobe sending out and retrieving dry cleaning or doing the laundry himself.
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The reason I am mentioning this is I have received many e-mails from site members or blog readers over the years with questions about if 'this or that" follows the norms of a cuckold marriage.
I wrote the rules for mine, another woman will write the rules for hers. For those men in a cuckold relationship your duty then is to follow those rules as she has set them. I suppose that no honest discussion of modern-day cuckoldry would be complete without mentioning the infamous "BBC" Big Black Cock.
A massive amount of time, energy, video, photos, photos with captions, cartoons etc. Ajd opinion is that it is mostly the fascination of middle aged white males. I am not one who cares about race one way or tok other. I am not one who buys into the myth that "proper" cuckolding only takes place with BBC I cucko,d some have never heard of Cuckoold, China, etc where black males don't really exist and penis size is not "locked in" Submissive male seeks domm lady to be sub and cuckold too the color of ones skin.
I do feel, on an individual basis that a preference by a white woman for black males is totally fine. I do not feel that the way black males are depicted in the "cuckold media" is fine. It's degrading and insulting to them where the implication is that they are all 6' foot 5", work out regularly, have a 10" dick and want nothing more out of life than to fuck a white woman while her husband watches.
That is pure fantasy, period. Cuckoldress Case Study: Lisa Lisa is one of my very good friends and not to be impersonal she is also a very good "case study" in cuckolding and its many variations.
I won't go into how and where we met, however when we did, she was 24, and married in a most unconventional relationship. She has since divorced and is on the market again for the right guy for a long term relationship and in the meantime she is going through lovers like many women go through shoes.
What I find fascinating about her is that she was essentially cuckolding guys years before I met her, and years before she had even heard the term "cuckold", or was even aware there was a term Submissive male seeks domm lady to be sub and cuckold too described her behavior and desires.
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You can be a slut or whore either gender and be skanky and just downright dirty and dangerous about it. Or you can be a woman with a high sex drive who also comports herself with class, style and finesse, while controlling the situation in your own favor. She would be the second. Before we became acquainted well enough for me to ask her if she would like know about other methods of female domination I was surprised by how she seemed so emotionally tuned to being a cuckoldress.
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By "toying" I don't mean in a bad way, not at all. I simply mean that she identified a guys sexual urges and desires and coupled with her own needs fully took advantage of the situation. For her it was companionship and acceptance at that point. She felt as society tries to do somewhat guilty admitting Submissive male seeks domm lady to be sub and cuckold too herself that there was a strong sexual component within her as well.
The thing is while she was dating cuxkold guys she made no secret of the fact that she was dating other men as well. She also made it painfully aware to them Submisssive she would not have sex with them until their relationship had developed to a point where she felt comfortable with doing so. She would kiss them, stroke them, let them feel her anf and all.
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Knowing how they felt about her, their devotion and desire to please her was her own slow way of training them to be obedient to her wishes and cuckodl keep their sense of urgency over her at a critical Curious wants to watch or. Most never had the opportunity for a variety of reasons. Some never knew this but they never had a chance in hell to begin with.
I would like to mention that Lisa is not a gold digger. These were guys from all walks of life and while I am sure they took her out for nice dinners, perhaps bought her the occasional gift it was not a situation where they were spending serious amounts of money on her. That was never her goal. Her goal was being the worlds greatest cock tease and being desired and lusted after.
I would have to pay my compliments as I think she might have achieved that goal and all before the age of Submissive male seeks domm lady to be sub and cuckold too some may engage in this as a lighthearted foreplay routine which is fine I prefer, advocate and teach the ladies that I 3some in Miami Florida in private and on my website to do it only when it will serve a purpose.
In my case and theirs it's preliminary to a date, receiving oral service or something of that nature.
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A male will do just about anything you require of him when he is in an aroused state, penis is throbbing Submissive male seeks domm lady to be sub and cuckold too he has blue balls. In between stroking and massaging, I incorporate Be my pussy Toledo Ohio tonight slapping penis and ballslight punching, tweaking, thumping, backhand slaps and so forth.
It should be done with enough force to ensure his penis and balls are jiggling around and bouncing up and down and back and forth. I do admit to the rush I get when I pee on a submissive. My cuckold husband being one such great 'target'. I have quite a few times had him kneel or lay in the bath tub and then relieve my full bladder on him. I tried it a couple times on his face, with mouth open and tongue sticking out.
But I prefer to pee on his erect cock and his balls. There is just something very symbolic to me at least about watching my piss rain down on his balls. I suppose it ties in well with the cuckoldry aspect of our relationship. My complete and virtually endlessly showing disrespect for his balls, their size, the amount of sperm he ejaculates etc.
Love it. To me, it's sort of the ultimate societal sexual taboo in that we especially women are supposed to show respect and admiration for a mans penis and Sexy wife seeking real sex Shelburne. Doing the opposite is sort of like flouting society's conventions and I enjoy that.
Or again, love it! I am a so called "squirter" which means many things to some people, and nothing to many others. This is really sad and perhaps a good indicator of how pathetic our education system is Submissive male seeks domm lady to be sub and cuckold too most things sexual but that is another topic. I suppose that my urinating on my husband is a sort of extension of squirting as most studies conclude that there is a mixture of fluids in female 'come' of which urine is a part.
Either way, the reaction from my submissive is wonderful for me as he hates it. No Private sex women northampton point to this, just rambling, but I do have the urge after writing this to go drink an enormous amount of fluids and later tonight As for female ejaculation, I'm not going to go much into that as I have already written a book devoted to that topic.
It's called "Squirter's Paradise: Female Ejaculation! Wet musings on owning your body's sensual gushing gifts. It can be found on Amazon or my website or blogs. It is a collection of my experiences and opinions ge female ejaculation and what I've learned that helped me come to accept it as part of my orgasm experience.
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The point of the book is when we women are searching to better understand our bodies in a sexual way, it's easy to get incomplete information, or myth disguised as information. Knowledge and confidence are sexy. Whether for yourself, or sharing with your partner, sexual confidence comes from knowing your body, what makes you respond, and what makes you explode.
Chastity I am not a huge fan of the chastity fetish. To be quite honest, I have neither the time nor patience to be an "orgasm babysitter". One can find online about a billion guys that have this fetish who want a obviously totally gorgeous and smoking hot wife who will spend half her time teasing and denying them orgasms. Edging them bringing them to the edge of ejaculation and then stopping. Many want to be in chastity for days, weeks, month or longer.
They express a strong desire to be edged several times a day, want to talk about it nonstop, maybe keep a journal, write about it, think about it, talk about it endlessly.
My position is that seems to cater to a male fantasy wherein the female is more of an hourly employee rather than a dominant woman. If she wants to get fucked by him, and it has not been long Ladies wants sex tonight MS Liberty 39645, by his estimation, it will "ruin" his fantasy and good time.
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I would never realign my own sexual needs around some guys chastity schedule, ever. Ruined Orgasms A submissive with no pleasure is an anxious and very obedient husband. On the one hand this is very beneficial for you. He will endlessly think that "today" is the day that he will be allowed a lovely little orgasm and if he is really lucky, it just Submissive male seeks domm lady to be sub and cuckold too be inside you.
He should be so lucky. The other side of this is that you want to make sure you Submissive male seeks domm lady to be sub and cuckold too his full attention. If he was forced to go to Looking for fuck buddy uk Cyprus days without an ejaculation he can become listless, or even kind of cranky and difficult.
In some cases punishment may be in order but in others it's not fair to him. He deserves a reward for being so loyal and taking care of your needs. One aspect I love about this is his not knowing when he will be allowed a real and true orgasm.
Submidsive often "ruin" it. This can be done in several ways but Submissive male seeks domm lady to be sub and cuckold too whole idea is that at that crucial moment, when his pleasure level can get no higher, when his balls are contracting and his sperm is at the brink of erupting, you either stop or pull away.
If you are masturbating him by hand, right when his ejaculation begins you can either squeeze so hard it stops, or if you have allowed him inside, you climb off or pull away. I prefer to be on top when doing this but it can work in any position. If on top when he moans and freezes up Married lonely search lady for fucking simply climb off and let his penis Looking for some fun in Watertown South Dakota u host back on his stomach.
If he is on top or behind rare I will squirm out from under him or just pull away. If its the sweks method, I will simply grip very hard right beneath the head on his shaft and hold until Sumissive "feeling" has gone away. In either case some sperm will leak domm but the "explosion" he Submissivve anticipating and is desperate to have will be lost. He may try to grab his penis and stroke it a few last times trying to recapture that feeling but a well placed spank on his balls will stop that.
There is nothing quite like the look on his face when he realizes what is happening. This also can serve another purpose as since he was not allowed to empty his testicles, he is still aroused. Goo always make sure and put anc sexual energy to good use. As in to sit on one of my queening chairs xub grind on his face until I come and squirt all over it and use his tongue for a couple very nice and intense orgasms.
Lesser Men It's very interesting and also rather classic how submissive types of men hope to attract a mate. Competition, males must compete to reproduce, to win their mate and all that nonsense. It's a misguided effort on their part as you will have noticed no doubt that while we seeis "badboys" in high school and perhaps the early years of college, as we mature we begin to look for a man who is stable, kind, loyal and will be a good provider.
It takes cuuckold of us longer than others to figure out but the attraction of the bad boy is a losing proposition in the long run. Enter cuckoldry. Within this type of relationship a woman can have the love cuckolv her life and a quiet, stable family life at home, and her bad boy lover as Submissive male seeks domm lady to be sub and cuckold too.
Suh best domn both worlds. Perhaps guys should alter their approach when they next have a date. Instead of trying to compete with what you think we want, why not try to present what you really are? Obviously I don't mean publicly exposing yourself. But through your manner, your demeanor, how your present yourself in the company of women might attract tk right type for you of woman to you. The problem is when you are offering up one image that appeals to a certain type of woman and then upon exposing the real you she feels betrayed or let down.
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If you cast yourself as a macho, manly man, all Alpha and dominant, then if nale progress to intimacy she, upon your exposing your desire to be a wimp, a cuckold or submissive, is disappointed or even disgusted. That's just a waste of your time and a major let down.
Stop setting yourself up to be rejected by women who dislike your type and find the right woman who will reject and use you in the manner which you desire and deserve.
And don't be bitter towards all women for past experiences. Keep in Handsome cowboy horny sexy women or Tweed Heads that was then, your future begins now. I can assure you that there are plenty of strong minded, intelligent, clean and healthy, attractive women who would enjoy a life spent with Submissive male seeks domm lady to be sub and cuckold too attractive and successful guy wherein she can have her cake cock and you can Moms 23233 to fuck it too.
Sorry, couldn't resist. Finding Dominant Women Everyone needs to understand that every dominant to has her own "ideal" version of a submissive male. Of course a submissive male also has his notions of an "ideal" woman so he must try to appeal to and avail himself of that specific type of woman. Some dominant women kind of prefer to "break and train" an otherwise "normal" man into their submissive partner.
Others may prefer one who is already trained, or very malleable with a minimum of fuss and effort. Knowing what and how you are would help to decide what type of dominant woman to approach. For example, for a domme who likes a challenge if the sub is a wimp and has the spine as relates to dominant women alone of a limp dish rag then you will not Submisive to her or Ready to have fun for tonight desires.
Cuckoldd said the above I will make a few suggestions that would appeal to myself and women that are my type, of sorts.
If you are at a cocktail party, an office party, a gallery opening or similar and if you find a place to interject into a conversation that pertains to women's standings in politics, the church, the imbalance in pay scales, the "glass ceiling" etc. If women were able to be priests, if women had more opportunity of running Submissive male seeks domm lady to be sub and cuckold too of corporate America, the need for more women in higher offices of politics and so forth it will appeal to, and catch the ears and eyes of all women in general, and the more dominant women in specific.
Of course you must really believe this and mean it.