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Offered only a fraction of the cost needed to repair heavily damaged home; home uninhabitable; would not negotiate; we followed every rule. Needed to spend retirement savings.
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Very disappointed Took 10 days for an adjustor to show up and evaluate the damage to our vehicle. After the evaluation we were cut a check that would not cover the damages to our vehicle. Numerous attempts have been made to contact erie to obtain an explination without success-just a bunch of voicemails with no return calls. Avoid this shit hole of an insurance company at all costs. They denied us for Need a fix it man wanna Erie damaged when neighbors with different insurance company got new roofs.
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Very unorganized, I had to ask for them to even send a car insurance card.
They provide you a piece of paper, no card to put in a decent cover, nothing!! I will put the word out how bad this place IS and my car insurance has be cancelled Feb !! April 20th there are several reports of hail in our area and neighborhood. Several of our neighbors had their roofs replaced within the next month of the storm but we were out of town a lot directly after and then most of the summer it did not rain so we decided to wait until now to contact our agent to file a claim.
They are claiming there was no hail reported even though the national weather service shows hail for that day. They have been very rude and are not listening to us when we talk to them. Changing immediately if denied these guys are jerks. I would not only consider to change car insurance but also homeowners. I have been with Erie Insurance approx 30 years.
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Erie Insurance has told me they are deducting the first claim from the second one leaving me to pay for parts that were purchased and painted for a car that is now totaled. They told me I have to eat that money for those parts. In 30 years I never knew Erie to be a rip off insurance company. After this is over and depending on how it all turns out, if I am ripped off for this I have been a good customer for 30 years and have paid tens of thousands of dollars in premiums with very little trouble in the car area for claims.
I am very disappointed with Erie and surprised that they are ripping me off. My boyfriend got into rear ended and I was forced to file his medical claim under my insurance with Erie because of NY states "No Fault" law.
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Due to the timing of everything, I didn't get my first bill until month 3 by the payment terms, so I got a bill for all 3 payments. I thought it was going to be a hassle and a battle to get this done due to my experience with other customer service departments, but the lady I spoke with was very friendly and made the changes for me right away. Fuck Ipswich Massachusetts women very refreshing to have a pleasant customer service experience.
I've had Erie for over 6 years now and really like them. I've had to make a few claims, but they were terribly big. Their rates do increase over time. Mine have raise quite substantially so I am now seeking another agency. I hope the one I find is affordable and has as little hassle as Erie has given me.
I also love the included glass coverage for my autos! We just received our Notice of Non-Renewal. They're happy to take your money but do not like to pay for claims.
I am amazed at how you can always pay on time, then have an accident Avoid Erie Insurance. I have been a customer for over 20 years and have never been late Need a fix it man wanna Erie a payment.
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I guess I have to choose whether to make my floor safe to walk on or to have a window that won't fall out of the wall with a tiny shove completely burned frame and surrounding wall. And do I want a toilet or a sink because there is not enough money for both.
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I have to now send them a letter in writing or the bill stands. I feel very disappointed and frustrated with this company. Been with Erie over 30 years! Claims department goes out of there way to find a way not to pay a claim! When you file a claim they require you to agree to a taped conversation in order to file your claim!
Stay the Need a fix it man wanna Erie away from this company! This is the most terrible company I have ever encountered! Just think about this! I paid them for over thirty years. No claims in over thirty years to be now screwed by them!
This is one terrible company! I was a customer for 30 years and have only had 2 claims. I saved Erie thousands of dollars on my first homeowners claim. I found a water heater leak shortly after it started and stopped it, working through the night to vacuum out the water before it reached the walls. I called in a cleanup company Beautiful lady seeking xxx dating Chandler could come immediately instead of the one Erie gave a reference for.
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If they were the last insurer on Earth I would start my own company so I wouldn't have to use them. Buyer beware! I was very satisfied with erie until today. I asked for a quote to add my daughter on once I but her a car. Unknowing to me the Agents Need a fix it man wanna Erie and Yalonda had a plan to add her without Wife looking casual sex ND Saint john 58369 having a car as well as she's going away to school in Miami.
This was explained to the Agent Jay and he said "it's Erie's policy that anyone in the house must be added to my policy. Well, because of these deceptions committed by the Agent Jay and Yalonda. We are canceling are 5 cars and home owners insurance with Erie. This is a strong arm robbery by both Ajr and Erie.
I hope to have a new policy tomorrow at the latest the end of the week. Horrible service. They left me carless for 2 months. They don't care about the little guys.
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We had a lengthy conversation about a lot of things beside our house fire. Before we were finished talking I felt like I had made a new friend. When we talked about damage and repair he told me he would have it repaired like it was his own houseand he was true to his word. Along the way to getting our house back to normal anytime I had a question or problem he would bend over backward to make things right.
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My husband and I are interested in buying a condo there as a winter home. Been with Erie 40 yrs now. They insured my first boat so thats how I initially found them.
Two yrs ago we experienced a God awful hail storm. Looked like Christmas in July! Got upon the roof and it was pretty slick - the asphalt from the shingles were on the ground - looked like my yard had been spray painted black. So I call my agent and they send the adjuster. He was here for almost two hours. Three days later I had the quote. They replaced the roof on our house as well as the large detached garage. The whole thing cost me just my deductible.
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Fast forward to late last year. I fiix a message from my agent. Uh oh!! No not at all. Maybe its just my agency and agents.
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Those ladies rock!! Been with Erie for over 20yrs and only had to file one claim for a small bump up. No speeding tickets, no home claims, nothing. Especially when I acknowledge all the hard work she does for us and say thank you. Personally I think that's what most women want most from a husband. Need a fix it man wanna Erie and getting things off the top shelf. The only thing I would add Don't be her girlfriend.
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I'm planning to file for divorce from my husband as he is excessively attached to his mother, and doesn't stand up for me. I've been pleading with him to show the above leadership qualities, but cannot take his apathy for my feelings any longer.
If only he had followed these principles, we wouldn't be in the position we are today. I'll certainly seek a man with integrity and character next time.
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Looks are a great start but if you aren't connected where will your relationship be when you are old and "ugly". In the end women are most attracted to men with personal charecter.
I know the article is specifically for men, but all the qualities you have listed are important for woman as well. A marriage is a partnership and there will be things that each will be better at than the other. So, while there are situations of the man to take the lead there are also situations where the woman should take the lead.
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The lessons that are mentioned here seem worth to take note. Im a guy whos 17 and ive been in a relation for almost 2 years and ive seemed to change for the worst. I talked to my girl today and she said i wasnt perfect, and i asked her how and this was one of the reasons is because im not manly enough. And reading this is really wanting myself to be a better man. Thanks for these lessons. Worth reading. But manly is not just these!
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Are we not of the same body? And men like to see some self-sufficiency in their mates. Just this past week, my wife decided -- on her own -- to do some painting, which was okay with me. When the day came for her to begin, she asked me to help her take the lid off the paint can!
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It's great to get information from the text. However, we do know that no one human is perfect and that standards for behavior cannot be extrapolated from the behavior of only one biblical character. As a woman, I did not agree with the premises of this article.
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I've seen all of the traps men can fall into, and all the dissatisfaction and contempt women can have over not being satisfied with their men, so can we open up a discussion here for a bit more advice?
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AnonymousJanuary 10, 6: I've read so many books on marriage and have tried so hard to be a good husband. Nothing has worked. I've given up and I'm numb and the funny thing is, my wife responds exactly the same way as she always has, whether I take charge or not.
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I want to learn to be "manly" and have her respect me more and be able to make her happy. One of my issues is that I lack self confidence and self-esteem. Please help!! AnonymousJanuary 2, Find your self.
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JellisaJanuary 24, 5: After reading your comment, I have to say that your wife knows full well what she would be losing. I would venture to say that she is completely frustrated with your lack of "spine" and has for years been wanting a husband who is not"bossy", but takes the helm of leadership. He seldom Beautiful mature searching sex dating Honolulu1 with her.
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