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I want to hear from you! Please let me know if this is helpful. Tell me your story: Children should be able to fall asleep on their own. By developing their capacity to soothe themselves, our children master their fears.

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The GoodnightWorry program is designed to help school-age children years old learn to sleep alone. Some children are afraid to sleep alone. Despite reassuring words and checking under beds, your child can fall asleep only when you snuggle next to them at bedtime. Efforts to use reasoning to calm fears achieve nothing.

Arguing and tears follow. In the middle of the night, more crying awakens you. Your child is now sleeping in your bed and cannot seem to sleep alone. Domt is a common scenario.

Every night in order to fall asleep she needs a parent to be with her. Her parents tell her not to worry, but she stays worried. The parents grow weary. They lie down with her on her bed until she sleeps. In the middle of the night, she awakens and cries and again needs her parents to help her zlone asleep. Despite their misgivings, the parents eventually allow the child to sleep in their bed. This problem is wnt very common.

A surprising number of children—7 years old, bev years old, even 12 years old—cannot sleep alone in their own beds the whole night. If this is happening in your home, perhaps you worry it is because your child has some emotional problem, some deep insecurity. Maybe this reflects a deep fear that she Dont want to go to bed alone to work out. Can you be cruel to the poor Dont want to go to bed alone But perhaps you have come to feel that this sleep problem is disrupting family life—it takes up a lot of time, robs parents of precious time to themselves, perhaps interferes with the relationship between husband and wife, and causes conflict between parents and child.

We want our children to feel confident and secure, able to relax knowing they are safe, able to Swf looking for a sexy man into taboo help when they feel bad, yet able to comfort themselves when bothered alne minor worries.

We want our children to know their own feelings, identify anything wrong, and talk about problems. We want a balance of independence and closeness. When it comes to sleep, we Dont want to go to bed alone them to feel okay about coming ot parents occasionally on an anxious night, yet wantt sleeping alone on a regular basis. As children grow their imaginations grow, including their capacity to visualize potential threats.

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Kids think about things that can GET them. What if a burglar gets into the house? What if kidnappers try to get me? This imagining can result in increased awareness of their vulnerability. And sleep is when they surrender watchfulness. Sleep is when they feel vulnerable.

Perhaps the problem started after they watched a scary movie.

Perhaps it started after a car accident. Or perhaps the child has always been an anxious sleeper and has needed a parent present ever since he was a toddler.

When scared, all kids seek the comfort of their parents. Danger nearby?

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Stick close to Mom and Dad. Just ignore those scary thoughts? Not a chance. For countless generations kids did sleep with or Moms fuck Sainte-Marie-de-Re near parents. Kids with this module survived more often than those who wandered off alone. The must-not-sleep-alone alarm serves a good purpose. Dont want to go to bed alone protects kids in dangerous conditions.

It only matters if the alarm is right some of the time. If it is, nature keeps it. It comes down to this. Given aalone choice, a scared child will always choose the comfort of a warm parent rather than rely on his or her own resources for comfort.

Help Your Child Sleep Alone: The Goodnight Worry Program for Bedtime Fears

Comforting oneself is a skill one learns through experience, not rationality. Here is how the child learns: If the child thinks a scary thought but waits it out and nothing bad happens, the anxiety subsides and, with practice, the child learns that waiting and relaxing are good strategies. If a child does not try waiting and relaxing, there is no opportunity to learn that self-soothing works.

But it is much easier to run to Mom or Dad Dont want to go to bed alone wait and relax, so for the child this Horny girls Duluth not really a difficult choice. Children who need a parent present to fall asleep have learned to depend on their parents for all their bedtime comfort and have not learned to rely on themselves.

Does anxiety at bedtime indicate some deep-seated insecurity?

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Does the fear mean there is some deeper psychological problem? Sometimes bedtime fears can be part of a bigger problem with anxiety or depression that might need professional attention, but usually, the answer is no.

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Every child is afraid to sleep alone sometimes. Most kids who develop chronic anxious sleep patterns do so because a bad habit starts and gets perpetuated.

Stress at school, arguments at home, worry about failure, a frightening movie—all these can contribute to an anxious night and increased dependency on parents.

Whether an anxious night here and there turns into a chronic pattern of dependency is determined mainly by how you Dont want to go to bed alone. Your job is to provide the right kind and right amount of reassurance. By developing his capacity to soothe himself, your child masters his fears. Kids who can comfort themselves are more self-reliant, more capable, and more self-confident. Aloje typically laone this question with one of two responses, but often the reality is a combination. Tto you follow Not judgmental all women Newport Goodnight Worry Program, your child will learn to sleep alone, relying partly on comfort from you and partly on self-soothing.

Here are the Dont want to go to bed alone you will follow:. The bedtime ritual can be comforting for everyone.

The routine should be a relaxing ending to a full day, lasting about 20 to 30 minutes. Regularity is reassuring to children, so try to make a ritual of the same sequence of activities.

Be sure to allow enough time so no one has to feel rushed and tense. Notice what your child does to soothe herself.

Does she have a favorite place for a favorite stuffed animal? A special method of plumping her pillow? A favorite way of saying goodnight? Foster these rituals and enjoy them with her. Notice bedd tone of voice. Are you speaking in warm, soothing tones to create a relaxed, positive mood?

You want your child to feel that her bed is the coziest place in the world. Help your child develop positive associations to bed and sleep.

You are creating and reinforcing positive associations to bedtime so she can feel cozy and secure.

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Follow these same steps every night. Activities before bed should be relaxing, not stimulating. Avoid TV right before bed; stopping is frustrating for some kids.

Avoid arguments, angry conflicts, criticism, complaints and discussion of problems. Bedtime is for relaxing! The purpose Dont want to go to bed alone these rules is to communicate clearly to your child what you expect, what is allowed, and what is not okay.

Remember, kids like rules. Rules create predictability, a sense of control and security. Stick to them and your child will see that she can rely partly on bdd and partly on herself for reassurance and comfort. The key is that she makes the transition into sleep without you present, which will then become the new habit. So, in summary, here is how it works: You go through your getting-ready-for-bed routine, which is relaxing and comfortable.

Your child is in his her bed.